The Aries Man and his Sexuality


Mar 21. – Apr 20.

You will notice very soon: a friend, lover or spouse, who was born in the sign of Aries is aggressive, energetic and restless. He may be impractical and impulsive, but thatfore imaginative and dynamic. He has it. Who takes an aries man cannot know where it will end up. But whereever that may be, it will be truely exciting. You will quickly realize that he is generous in one moment and stingy in the next moment. He can drive a woman mad, but she will still find it delightful.

She thinks it’s amazing because the Aries man is an aphrodisiac. He is a dominating personality that defies rules and conventions, and is most impatient. He is not interested in the “missionary position” when falling into bed. If it is a bed at all. The Aries in love wants to sleep with his woman on a moving boat or on the top of a car.

His chosen will experience all the delights one could wish for – and sometimes even a little more. The delights are abundant, but kind of a game of bowling with hand grenades. Every moment something could explode.

He is jealous. He wants his spouse with lock, stock and barrel, what she may not expect from him though. He may be a bed hopper, but from his woman he demands absolute loyalty. If she makes a fling, it’s over. He is jealous of everyone, from his best friend to the postman.

You will not get understanding from an aries man if you come up with the excuse that you would “need time to think” – he wants to hear only one answer from the woman he loves: “Yes!” He won´t worry about upcoming events. His pride is not content with half measures and will demand more. Working hard, a bit stormy, ripping her clothes off, but then stops like he had promised. He is most certainly not boring. With him, you can experience a night not soon to be forgotten.

You can bind him by saying nice things about him his ability – he is very accessible to flattery, if it´s not applied too thick. But the Aries man is not stupid. He happens to be so self-confident, that he thinks the flattery is rather an underestimation.

How To Make An Aries Man Fall In Love With You

For the woman who loves a homely, quiet life, the aries man is not a suitable companion. He is a pioneer. But underneath all the posturing and imperious arrogance, you can feel a strange sensibility – the charm of a little boy who needs a sheltering mother. Anyone who recognizes this through the iridescent surface is able to win his heart. To the woman he loves, he will prove loyalty, sincerity and tenderness.

He has a sense of humor and expresses a preference for both intelligent and sexy women. He uses his witty repartee to expose unnatural and false appearances.

He is a natural leader of straightfoward, open nature, and insists to go his own way. He is able to earn a lot of money, but will not always know how to keep it. He tends to be very extravagant, and spends money as a way to demonstrate power. For the woman, that rises the problem of keeping up with him. However, she will find it rewarding.

In Bed…

The key to his sexual behavior is impulsiveness. He has yet to learn that a sexual relationship is based on giving and taking. If his sexual fantasies meet oposition, he will react intolerant.

Do not try to fool him, he will notice. You must keep what you have promised him, or he will lose all respect for you and leave. If you do not want to go to bed with him, better stay at home watching TV, the Aries man does not like if someone plays games on him. Everything that tastes like routine bores him fatally. The woman who wants to sexually appeal to an aries man must exercise imagination – without any restrictions.

He does not care about any consequences. If he wants a woman, he wants her. Those who have a relationship with this man must never forget to take their contraceptive. He may have a condom somewhere, but that does not mean that he will use it.

Most likely he will take the lead. Suggestions he might adopt, but they will run to his own taste. Who allowes him to kiss her boobs must reckon with his tongue all over her body. With him you must always be prepared for unexpected surprises. His irrepressible instinct lives with delight for the shocking and forbidden. Aries are researchers who must have everything under control. They become irritable if something gets in their way. What position they prefer may depend on their age, but they remain forever young mentally. In any case, his position has to be a dominant one.

The Aries man can tend to sadism. He shows no respect. Purely oral stimulation is certainly not enough for his satisfaction. He plucks the hair, pinches the nipples, or rams his penis in his partner´s mouth. If you are into stuff like that, and don´t cry painfully, you can increase his pleasure greatly.

One of his favorite sex position is to take her from behind. This can also be varied over a chair or other suitable piece of furniture. In the normal position he likes kneeling between the legs of the woman, lifts up her buttocks and then to thrust in with all his strength.

When aging, and the Aries finds that he is no longer as potent as in his younger years, his pride and sensibility are put to the test. One wrong word at the wrong time can then make him temporarily impotent – for him a particularly worse blow. Then he may well respond in his usual aggressive manner; he probably knows a dozen women who are half as old as he is. And he goes after them. He wants to prove to himself that he is still the same man as he used to be. If he fails, that can lead to a breakdown.

However, as long as he is in the prime of life, one must bear his aggressiveness and his tendency to inflict pain – mind you, we talk about tendencies here. Beware nevertheless. He tends to take a woman before she is ready, just to enjoy her fright. Orally, he is not of great delicacy. When performing cunnilingus, he bites and he sucks hard on the clitoris. Whips or leather belts reinforce his pleasure when his sadism takes over. He enjoys spanking his partner, and not only by hand. Hairbrushes, ping-pong bats, bamboo rods – he’s pretty resourceful there. When he has found a woman willing to go there with him, he will spank her quite strong. And when she begs for mercy, he is driven to other atrocities – and to a more joyful orgasm. The more turbulent things get, the better for him.

Of course, other constellations in the horoscope may exert their influence on the Aries man so that other extremes can arise; an extremist he is almost always. Be on guard. The woman who meets a “pure” Aries should always remember where the “emergency exit” is. If his sexual needs become too much for you, you pack your stuff and hurry out. It depends on your character whether you wants to stay with him, and enjoy his extreme love.

A good way to keep him under control is the 69 position. In this position, the possibilites of inflicting pain at least do not play from a one-way street. He also may be into group sex. The more the merrier. You can even bet that if partner-swapping occours in his circle, it has been instigated by the Aries man. He likes to prove his sexual prowess, and usually he comes up with the most unusual ideas that others are slightly shocked about. With one exception: you should not try to play with his rear entrance. Not because it would be contrary to aesthetic reasons, but because this position threatens his “manhood”.

All in all, the tendency to sadism can be in many men born under the sign of Aries.

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Which zodiac is right for the Aries Man in Bed


Aries and Aries

In a sexual relationship, normally the female dominates the male. But the Aries Man does not take that submissive role for too long. It comes to quarrels, both want to take the lead, and they clash furiously. This means disharomy in bed. At first it may seem a promising affair, but awkward outlooks on a marriage.


Aries and Taurus

Aries want to be impulsive lovers. Reserved thoughfullness makes Taurus not very spontanious, and that bores Aries. When Aries allows Taurus to take the lead, both can uncover new possibilites regarding their sex life. Aside from that, it´s going to be hard to find the balance. Fights might accour. They rather don´t fit for a long lasting relationship.


Aries and Gemini

This union can be exciting, both are restless and active folks that are drawn to everything new by curiousity. The Aries tendencies to domineer are going to be curbed by Gemini´s finesse. Gemini don´t have much prudery, but their jolly spirit can seek other ways to fulfillment than sex. An affair will be successful as long as Gemini can manouver themselves through Aries tough grip. Possibly, a marriage can be happy if both respect each other well enough.


Aries and Cancer

There is a strong physical attraction between these two. Unfortunately, there won´t be much of it left once their passion has exhausted itself. Aries won´t find enough setoff, and they fight over voidances. Differences in their temperament lead to incompatibility in bed. Forecast for an affair: heavy sea. Forecast for marriage: most certainly suffering shipwreck.


Aries and Leo

The aggressive Aries finds an equal in Leo, whose open and tense sexuality is very much for him. Sex is most definately without any complications, prudery or awkwardness. Both embrace their lust to the fullest. Aries may not omit to congratulate to the Leo´s outstanding qualities as a lover, and should keep compliments on the tip of his tounge. Leo must be on guard to not neglect the Aries tendencies to be the commanding one. Apart from that, all lights green.


Aries and Virgo

The Aries´ boldness will impress Virgo and stimulate their imagination. Regarding sexuality, these two are quite different, so it will take a good chunk of tolerance from both sides. Aries is going to be stunned by Virgo´s tactfulness, ability to self-command and logic. Virgo on the other hand is not that much convinced by the Aries´ extravagant sexual taste. An affair can be fulfilling, but the outlooks on a happy marriage are fifty-fifty.


Aries and Libra

It´s possible that both develop short term affinity. The Aries´ aggressivity may bring some unconventional traits in Libra to light. Both love the carnal pleasures, but Aries is most likely going to demand too much too fast. Libra tends to idealize their partner and is disappointed easily. Both should put effort in respecting each other´s sensitivity and sexual needs. Physical desire can leed to a happy affair, but not a healthy marriage.


Aries and Scorpio

Sex can be stimulating or frustrating. Both is possible with this pair. In both signs of the zodiac, people are focussed on willful action, and are blessed with strong physical energies. But also both of them heed the need to be independent and commanding. Long lasting arguments might put their ability of being passionate to the test. Furthermore, the Scorpio´s jealousy tends to be a danger for their union. An affair will be unstable, a marriage unconventional.


Aries and Sagittarius

Both are warriors, many conflicts may occour regarding on the sexual stage. Aries´ optimism and cheerfulness may cause the Sagittarius to overcome tendencies to melancholy and help to develop a more playful attitude towards sex. Their compatibility in the bedroom can have a benificial influence on the whole relationship. An affair is good and right. A marriage is strongly dependant on the sex. If their sex is plenty and hot, then the marriage will be happy and strong.


Aries and Capricorn

The Aries is always looking forward and has his focus on things to come. He is also looking forward to everything new. Capricorn is rather cautious, and may have preferance for one specific technique or even a fixed timeframe when to have sex. Capricorn´s passion is much more restricted than Aries´. Nevertheless, the latter knows how to awaken the Capricorn´s libido and has the ability to throw over all of the logical calculations Capricorn may have. If the Capricorn can deal with this, outlooks are great. But rather for a serious long term relation than a short affair.


Aries and Aquarius

Their physical bond will be strong and adventerous. Most likely the Aries will dominate, because of the Aquarius´ given passiveness. But Aquarius is not to be dominated, and will get a feeling such a treatment is not for his best intrests. The Aries needs tactfulness if he wants to get along with an emotional dreamer like Aquarius. An unconventional and eventful affair, and if both show respect and understanding, a rewarding marriage.


Aries and Pisces

Aries is tempted by the almost supernatural intuition of the Pisces. His confidence brings them out of their shell. As long as the Pisces´ sexual phantasies are fulfilled, these two can be very inspiring to each other. This can lead to exceptional lustfull encounters. Outlook on both affair and long term relation are pretty good, as long as differences in their temperament can be overcome with respect and understanding.

Match with Aries

Now this is just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to Aries men in bed… if you’re serious about discovering what really turns on a bull, you’d have to learn about an Aries man’s sextrology to get a deeper understanding of his true desires. That’s why I recommend you read Anna Kovach’s Aries Man Secrets and gain completely new outlook on your Aries man.