The Aquarius man and his sexuality


Jan 21. – Feb 19.

The Aquarius man is definitely not a loner. He is generous, open-minded and genuinely interested in other people. Actually, he is only happy when he becomes involved in the lives of others. He is a very social person and always ready for a whole night of discussing a friend´s problems if he´s needed. He is anytime looking for a solution, for the truth. He is an outspoken analyst. It makes him interested if you submit a personal problem to him. He is always curious, resourceful and helpful.

Shy and passive by nature, he usually waits until the woman makes the first move. You must take the initiative if you want to date him. However, this does not mean that he is indifferent to affections. For him, passion is intertwined with friendship, and true friendship is not built overnight.

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He is driven not only from power. This counts also in the professional world. He is a creative, but not a hard worker. You must empower him from time to time, but very tactfully, because the Aquarian rebels up against measures of domination. He may not give long explanations, and a little misunderstanding can drive him to retract into his shell. Outwardly cool though, he is still a very emotional individual.

He is no conformist in any way. He is concerned about traditions only in so far, as he will break them if he has the chance to do so. In his mind, breaking traditions is the motor for progress. As an Aquarius friend of mine once said: “You can travel around the world, and you will not find a memorial to a man who has favored the status quo. Nobody erects a monument for a conservative..”

It is a waste of time to try to bind him too much. He must be free and independent. Of course, he loves to travel. His independence is often the unfortunate consequence of him not being able to developing a really deep friendship, despite having a large circle of superficial friends. He shuns the ties that bind, even if they are the bonds of friendship.

Socially, he gives himself amiable and seems to be delighted to meet new people. But sooner or later you will realize, that there is no real contact. Aquarius men escape whenever they can. He feels bored quickly and then turns to other people and other hunting grounds. You can only bind him with your love and respect. If you show that you really care for him, and always be honest to him, he will give it back.

He loves to face challenges, and he confronts others directly, at work, in sports and all parts of life. He hates the “warm-up”, and would much rather plunge immediately into the contest. Actors born under the sign of Aquarius are known for the fact that they learn their lines very quickly, and have their role already memorized in the reference sample. The Aquarius is indeed gifted for the stage and is an excellent orator. He has an unusual talent to convince others, and will try to do so if he sees a reason to. If he argues with you, this may be a form of appreciation. If you didn´t matter to him, he would not waste his energy on “educating” you.

In love, Aquarius responds to subtle approach and is characterized by tenderness. He is imaginative in everything sexual – a frigid woman will not remain frigid for long in this lovers arms. Unfortunately, he loses himself in dreams often, rather than in action, and may waste his erotic fantasies and sexual energies in masturbation.

He is restless and always looking for the perfect mate. He falls in love easily, but hesitates to marry. Who finally marries him will appreciate what a great catch they made. He is perceptive, kind, expressive, lively and has a good judgement. He loves people, and is very popular with them. Although he may appear outwardly cool, he smolders on the inside.

Moreover: Even though he is always attracted to new and unusual feelings (Uranus, the planet of the unexpected shows his influence), he is basically faithful. If he flirts occasionally, it´s only because the unknown makes him curious. If you leave him the reins, he is good to come home again. He can be very entertaining and stimulating – for the right woman.

In Bed…

He is really interested in the personality of a woman, and does not see her as a sexual object unless she wants him to. But he admires her for her spirit and her soul as well as for her body. He approaches her slowly and considerately. He enjoys the overture for quite some time before getting proactive. This is pretty much in contradiction to his aversion of a long “warm-up” in other areas, but the explanation is simple. For him, the overture is a very important part of a play.

One might suspect him to be a true artist regarding his patient approach, if only he had less of a tendency to consult the preliminaries for too long. Sometimes he has to be brought to action. He can devote foreplay with such enthusiasm that he actually loses the climax out of eyesight. In bed the Aquarius man sometimes lacks decisiveness.

But when his engines are running, he becomes an imaginative and enduring lover. He will ensure that the woman reaches her goal. Nothing can distract him from his course.

A woman who knows what she wants can get him to do anything she wants him to do. It only hast be brought to his attention tactfully, possibly with seduction. If treated with loving respect, he will want try out the newest and most unusual erotica.

For the Aquarius, the bed is like a stage, and he rarely plays two scenes in the same way. He is a sex – scientist, and so eager to statisfy a woman, that he´ll read all the books on this subject which he can get hold of. He is the kind of guy knowing the Kama Sutra in and out and trying to perfect his skills by practice, trying out every position at least once.

Since he is soon to be bored by repeating the same positions again and again, he loves complicated variations. Sometimes, these experiments bring the partner to the highest ecstasy. At other times, she may feel overwhelmed, unsatisfied or even in pain. Unfortunately, you can´t argue with him about him practicing immoral or abnormal practices, or even discourage him from doing so. Aquarius is the most tolerant, liberal of the signs of the zodiac. To that man, almost nothing in human sexuality is alien. But don´t be suprised to find him a bit stubborn. He is most proud of his willpower, and will show at any opportunity that he is stong-willed. Even if it´s only to show.

An Aquarius man likes sexual experiments, often he happens to be bisexual. In a heterosexual relationship he prefers the unusual and unconventional. His autoeroticism will sometimes affect his sexual function, there could be problems such as delayed ejaculation or impotence. The conquest, oftentimes, is more important to him than the sex itself. His preference for new experiances and his insatiable curiosity can take him to dangerous perversions, maybe even to sadism. When he starts to play with burning matches, you quickly dress up and disappear! Unless you like getting burned.

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Which Zodiac is right for an Aquarius Man in Bed



Aquarius and Aries

They have much fun in the bedroom. However, it may come to difficulties when one of the two tries to force the other one to do something; because they both do not tolerate a domineering partner. When it comes to sex, both are quite creative and fit really well together, also in other fields of life. The strong Aries will take the lead, all in all they have best prepositions for a hot affair or a good long lasting relationship.


Aquarius and Taurus

The passionate and highly sexual Taurus is confused by the Aquarius´ lax attitude towards sex. The Taurus does not want a friend, but a partner for life – where the Aquarius wants to make his sexual partner a buddy. He is very much occupied with activities out of house, an alienation for the home-loving Taurus. This encounter might lead to countless fights, both are headstrong and strong-willed characters who won´t easily find compromise. Bad outlook on a successful long term relationship.


Aquarius and Gemini

The Aquarius would dominate the Gemini, who will adapt to his sexual preferences. In the bedroom, they will have fun times, without coercion, but also without too much passion. The exitable and versatile Gemini will find the Aquarius to be a stabilizing influence. As long as the Gemini is intrested in the Aquarius´ out-of-house activites, everything is fine. An intresting affair that may lead to a mesmerizing long term relationship.


Aquarius and Cancer

The emotional Cancer upsets the Aquarius by giving sex too much importance. The Aquarius prefers a much cooler passion and a more casual attitude. With time, he will feel restricted and lose his feelings towards the Cancer, who is in constant need of affection. The Cancer will feel hurt and rejected, maybe even undesirable. An affair brings many troubles, a long term relationship or even a marrige will lead to huge problems.


Aquarius and Leo

This could be a desastrous jumble, even though for a time feeling like an exciting adventure and very promising. The main problem here is that the Leo is very physical, but Aquarius rather spiritual. He will most likely deny the Leo sexual admiration, which the Leo needs strongly. Both are independent by nature, Aquarius will also deny Leo´s wish to rule. Even if both are sexually compatible, there will be a lot of problems making a long term relationship potentially explosive.


Aquarius and Virgo

There´s not much physical attraction between these two. Both are oriented towards intellecutal activities. They won´t find the kind of initiative they need for erotical stimulation. The prosiac and practical Virgo tends to criticise the gushing and generous Aquarius. A calm relationship, that over time is doomed to bring boredom to both. A marriage can only succeed, if both share common intrests outside the bedroom.


Aquarius and Libra

Both are warm and sensitive in their sexuality. The Libra´s willingness to play erotic games is just what the Aquarius longs from the depths of his soul. Both will fulfill their carnal needs reciprocially to maximum satisfaction. They also share common intrests: both love luxuries, arts and music, and love to spend money! Best outlook for an exciting affair and an unique and happy marriage.


Aquarius and Scorpio

The Scorpio is so jealous and possessive, that the Aquarius just can´t deal with it. Aquarius seems to be indifferent regarding sexual activites, this will turn the aggressive passion of the Scorpio into outright sadism. The Aquarius will turn away and seek his luck in activities without the Scorpio. An affair aswell as a marriage will only be a short episode.


Aquarius and Sagittarius

Both are unpredictable, vivid and active lovers, which will guarantee some passionate action in the bedroom. Their extensive sexual interests are full of phantasies, that can be acted out. They are on the same page, even on other fields of life: both are socialites, receptive, cheery, no homebodies and will show respect for the privacy of their spouse. Outstanding partners, short term and long term.


Aquarius and Capricorn

Both personalites, that don´t show much of their feelings. This will rarely lead to sexual fancy. The Capricorn engages physical relationships only reserved and with caution, which the Aquarius won´t find much persuasive. Capricorn will find the Aquarius to be cold and indifferent. He, on the other side, can´t understand the smug and possessive Capricorn. An affair that will lead nowhere.


Aquarius and Aquarius

A wonderful match. Two inventive lovers that will stimulate each other intellectually before, during and after the love-making. They hit the bulls-eye. But there won´t be a deep emotional bond between them. Both are too analytical and too sensible to get behind their purely cognitive thinking. They have many interests besides their relationship. Nevertheless, a joyful affair and a healthy marriage.


Aquarius and Pisces

Their intimate relationship will soon become an emotional tug of war, and result in hurt feelings and dramatic misunderstandings. The sensible Pisces will become dependent on the Aquarius and demand constant proof of his love. That will make Aquarius feel uncomfortable and restricted. Oftentimes, it comes to tensions. An affair may start promising, but won´t last.

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